Love someone for what she is. Don't force her to change for you to love her deeply. Even if she's willing to change herself, don't force her to do so if you YOURSELF don't make an effort to change yourself. If you really love her, let her know. SHOW IT NOT SAY IT! We can easily see even small efforts on the actions you do for us. Don't be ashamed to bring her in public. Let people know she is your girlfriend, NOT HIDE her. You just show that you're not proud of her. Don't be a jerk! Every girl deserves to be love by a guy who's proud of her and never be ashamed to bring her in public!!!!!